Life learning: Seeking growth and awareness
The other day I was driving home and started to think about how long I’ve “been in school.” I started…
Category: Embodiment
What does intimacy look like? One perspective
Many moons ago, high on a mountain in northern California, during a retreat for healing, I created an experiment. I…
Finding Your Power in Chaos: A Chat with Life Coach Dave Allen
We are living in unique times. Institutions are transforming, people are rising up in both words and actions, and the…
Turning jealousy into ecstasy: Opening up relationships
(ADULT) One of the biggest challenges you may face when in a committed relationship is exploring “opening” that relationship. To…
Healing I have experienced in Power, Surrender, and Intimacy
My experience of attending Power, Surrender, and Intimacy (PSI) was transformative, spiritually healing, and soulfully invigorating. My journey to PSI was a…
Per a recent study of sex toy purchases: Bondage is big in Texas!
(ADULT) Ever wonder what sex toys are popular in your state? Bespoke Surgical examines Google Shopping data to find out…
Expanding your sexual repertoire: Creating experiments for learning
(ADULT) I often work with men who seek me out because they aren’t satisfied with their sexual and intimate lives.…
Top or bottom: Playing in the binary
(ADULT) Top or bottom. Dominant or submissive. Giver or receiver. Penetrative or receptive. Active or passive. We all know the…
In our bodies: Breaking through to self-love
(ADULT) For all the enthusiasm that lots of gay men have about their sexual encounters, I often hear quite a…
Sex selfies: Narcissist or nurturance?
(ADULT) Admit it. If you haven’t done it, you’ve probably thought about it. You’ve at least contemplated (if not taken)…
Why take the leap? Taking your first journey with the Body Electric School
When people ask me about the Body Electric School, the question I often get is, “Why should I take this…
How to connect to eros through creative expression
Creative endeavors feed our ability to better understand ourselves. Exploring our senses through “play” can lead us to learn more…
Embracing Kink as Transformative Experience: Mollena Williams-Lee Haas
WLT*I* Easter Conference Talk – Mollena Lee Williams-Haas from Mollena Williams on Vimeo. One of my favorite kink educators, Mollena…
My interview with Dr. HazelGrace Yates on the healing among genders
Produced March 16, 2018 – I interview Dr. HazelGrace Yates on her radical work to bring individuals identifying as men…
My interview with Galen Fous, MTP, on kink for healing and transformation
Produced November 24, 2017 – I interview Galen Fous, MTP, author, lecturer, and transpersonal psychologist, as he shares his perspective of…
Online workshop: Exploring Eros for More Expansive Living
Produced September 13, 2016 – I facilitate an online exploration of eros as a way to expand upon life…