Eros, Creativity, and Healing: Thoughts About Connecting with Yourself
In this unforseen and unprecedented time, I find one of themes emerging in chatting with others involves how to adjust…
Category: Embodied Healing
Breaking down barriers: Transcending beyond fears of offering touch
One of my greatest passions and pursuits in life is to guide others into understanding how the power of our…
Body workers, personal healing, and personal growth: The 2019 AASECT Institute
I am so very humbled and excited to share that I will be part of the faculty of the 2019…
Upcoming article: An examination of embodiment workshops through a clinical lens
I drafted a paper in the Spring of 2018 as part of my work to complete my comprehensive examinations in…
Tickling Kink? Erotic Play Through Laughter
(ADULT) When jumping into erotic exploration, most people don’t think about tickling as a way to build energy and connection. But…
My experience attending an eros workshop that changed my life
About seven years ago, in 2010, after completing Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) a couple of years prior, I said…
How to “Do It:” Great sexual health guides for diverse communities
Working in sexual health and wellness, I find that folks often seek safer sex resources that speak their language and…
Honoring others’ gender identities
Who we are is … well … who we are. And only we have the right to claim who we are. And…
Breaking down barriers: Gay men and HIV
Not too long ago, I found myself in a place of connecting intimately with a men I had recently met.…
Claiming my sexual health: My journey with PrEP
Tantamount to any decision that I make in my life is to be in full awareness of who I am,…
The beauty of humanity: Beyond the binary
This week, in the midst of all the other countless chaotic situations our country is experiencing, we get word that…
The pleasure principle: Reclaiming your joy by reducing your risk
(ADULT) For many people who are attempting to live a satisfying life, having sex without fear and anxiety can be…
What does intimacy look like? One perspective
Many moons ago, high on a mountain in northern California, during a retreat for healing, I created an experiment. I…
All of Me: Stepping Into the Light
One day, after spending literally all of my life operating with a belief that I never bothered to question, that…
Finding Your Power in Chaos: A Chat with Life Coach Dave Allen
We are living in unique times. Institutions are transforming, people are rising up in both words and actions, and the…
Healing I have experienced in Power, Surrender, and Intimacy
My experience of attending Power, Surrender, and Intimacy (PSI) was transformative, spiritually healing, and soulfully invigorating. My journey to PSI was a…
Expanding your sexual repertoire: Creating experiments for learning
(ADULT) I often work with men who seek me out because they aren’t satisfied with their sexual and intimate lives.…
Top or bottom: Playing in the binary
(ADULT) Top or bottom. Dominant or submissive. Giver or receiver. Penetrative or receptive. Active or passive. We all know the…
In our bodies: Breaking through to self-love
(ADULT) For all the enthusiasm that lots of gay men have about their sexual encounters, I often hear quite a…
Sex selfies: Narcissist or nurturance?
(ADULT) Admit it. If you haven’t done it, you’ve probably thought about it. You’ve at least contemplated (if not taken)…
Why take the leap? Taking your first journey with the Body Electric School
When people ask me about the Body Electric School, the question I often get is, “Why should I take this…
My interview with Dr. HazelGrace Yates on the healing among genders
Produced March 16, 2018 – I interview Dr. HazelGrace Yates on her radical work to bring individuals identifying as men…
My interview with Galen Fous, MTP, on kink for healing and transformation
Produced November 24, 2017 – I interview Galen Fous, MTP, author, lecturer, and transpersonal psychologist, as he shares his perspective of…
My interview with Steve Schwartzberg, Ph.D. on Creating Sacred Erotic Space
Produced November 15, 2016 – I interview Steve Schwartzberg, Ph.D., faculty of the Body Electric School, as he shares his experiences…